This is not to say that it is love. The other is a kind of giving up one for the other and splitting up for his family. There are two types of this. One before marriage and the other after marriage. This can have a major impact. That too is the great disappointment after marriage, the betrayal of trust is the greatest impact.
Recovering from this is a little difficult. There are some ways to recover from such a love affair tragedy. Read on to find out what they are ...
1. Trauma
In the beginning, our mind does not accept that our partner is having an affair with another man or woman. Refuses to believe at first. It is completely impossible for the mind to accept that there is another where we should be. Even more so when you see your spouse interacting emotionally with someone other than you, or when you see something around you engaging in despicable activity, it is very difficult to realize what is going on. Trying to determine if all of this is a nightmare, not just a delusion, can be like being in a fog. At this point you need to realize yourself.2. Rage
It is not a 'bad dream' and not just an illusion, you can not control the anger after knowing that it is real. Physical condition becomes worse. No action can be taken. You refuse to get out of bed. Without going to work and not being able to do daily chores, the mind will always seek the memory of love.He will be thinking about what happened. Then there are things like throwing things up, shouting, fighting with everyone and behaving out of self-control. Crying. This condition will change after a few days. But the pain in the mind is only rooted. This level will lead you to make the right decisions as you go.
3. Anger
At this point, initially with violent rage, then recovering from that pain, the mind will be stoned and have reached a normal state. This is where it usually happens that you start a compromise or decide on a divorce. Despite the deep wound, it is better to make a decision that suits the practical case.It is nonsense to take revenge on it. So at this time you can show great interest in achieving life goals to get out of misery or think and decide about ending married life.
4. Monuments
It is good to erase from your mind some of the places, objects, and reminders you went to with your partner. Some songs heard while in love, the restaurant they went to, otherwise the words they said, the friendships they formed, the relationships they all have, etc. are all good to avoid.5. New relationship
Do not marry someone else as soon as such an incident occurs. After a few days it is good to get used to, talk to, understand someone and then end the scent. You need to think and act before choosing another person for your life. Thus you may not be disappointed again.6. Goals
Letting go of the mindset that we have failed in love, we must pursue goals. Without Sada having the same memory, reading a book, doing favorite jobs, going somewhere far away and staying away for a month with peace of mind, always keeping us busy, we can quickly recover from that misery and achieve goals. So it is important to always understand ourselves and then move on with life.Everything in life becomes a lesson. There is a lot to learn. Everyone needs to know how to deal with it. So when love fails, forget them and enjoy life with our friends who will always give us happiness to continue our life.
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